Saturday, July 5, 2014

Ernest 7-10 Months

This kid is the highlight of our day! His smiles are abundant and his sounds are contagious! I'm just not sure what I would do all day without him! 

Let's start off with an update about his ezcema. He still has flare ups sometimes, but it is no where close to what it was before. We are still learning his triggers and I am beginning to think that what causes him hives is very different than what flares up his ezcema. This is what I have learned in the least three months: it wasn't a yeast infection and it seems that all the improvement actually came from the cod liver oil. Who knew? I am able to eat anything and it doesn't effect his skin but he is currently avoiding dairy and wheat as the big triggers and we are thinking oats, peppers, and coconut may be triggers as well. That's right folks, that coconut oil that I was lathering on him morning and night was actually hurting him. Awesome! We now use olive oil and he is handling that much better. Along with the oil and probiotic we've also started supplementing with Vit D as there have been studies to show ezcema improvement with increased Vit D levels. 

He doesn't scratch nearly as much...but every now and again we will catch him scratching. He usually does it when he is in his car seat, which is super inconvenient. You try steering, shifting, and reaching back to hold his hands...all while not crashing. It seems that when he gets bored or upset his goes right to scratching behind his ears. He has drawn blood a few times, but again nothing like it was before! 

When Ernest was about 9 months old we decided to do some sleep training again. He was still falling asleep easily but waking frequently at night. We did CIO for one night until 2am and then I fed him. He woke up maybe twice and cried for about 10-15 minutes, and by cry I mean whine or grunt. He never did full on cry. That's all it took. After that one night he has slept till at least 2am every night. And is starting to make it to 4 or 5 am. Honestly though, I am completely fine with once a night wakings! That is so doable, especially with how often he was waking when his skin was especially bad. 

Around 8 months he dropped his third nap. After a short adjustment period of an early bedtime, we have been able to get a good 4 hours of fun in the afternoon with him! It has really allowed us some freedom in our activities with him! We have gone to the splash pad in Springville a few times, and play dates are much easier to coordinate, now at ten months he will randomly skip his morning nap at times. It throws off my routine but is probably good for me to have some practice with only one nap days.

Around 8ish months Ernest got two front teeth on the bottom. He was a little whiny and got a runny nose but all in all he handled it like a champ. In other good news he has not taken to biting while nursing and I'm hoping that phase just skips some babies. When it does happen I do not think it is on purpose so I just pop him off and ignore it.

It was also around 8 1/2 months that he started crawling! I thought it would take him longer but once he was able to do his thing unswaddled on the floor he began planking, and doing push-ups, and all sorts of stuff! He finally got it though and is crawling all over the place. Crawling + summer + shorts = flare ups on his knees and legs. I do my best to keep them covered or have him crawl on soft surfaces but at the end of the day his knees are often flared up. Oh well. I think I have finally come to terms with the fact that it may always be something we deal with and I may not have a cure to make it go completely away. A little before 10 months he began standing up while supporting himself on different objects. He has let go once or twice and slowly let himself sit down without falling. We feel like he'll walk soon since he has been standing, jumping, and walking with help since day one!

He is loving food! And the kid would try anything I give him...if only I could give him dairy and wheat. His diet mostly consists of fruit, some veggies, and beans. He eats applesauce, blueberries, grapes, strawberries, pears,  prune juice, watermelon, and kidney beans on a regular basis. He has kinda lost his appetite for avocado, sweet potatoes, and carrots...but I try to sneak them in on occasion. His also tried chicken, chili, and a few other meals that I have prepared including chicken fiesta, chipotle chicken, and any other little things I can just give him that we are eating. Baby led weaning really is awesome because they learn to eat what you are already eating! I wish we could give him everything! I'm just praying he out grows his food allergies or that he can be treated!

Right now he loves water! He gets so excited when he sees me getting bath time ready! He loves funny voices and I now know why parents are perfectly ok looking and sounding like idiots. Anything to see a smile and hear a laugh right? He is also responding more to being tickled. His legs, and sometimes I can tickle his neck with kisses and he will laugh. So cute! He loves riding on Marshall's shoulders and playing with his hair. He loves songs and will break out in a huge grin when we start singing popcorn popping or take me out to the ball game. For some reason we sang those a lot to him when he was younger and he still enjoys them. He also makes lots of noises and I think sings along with us! He continues to love people and it really feels like he remembers people between visits. So many of our friends and family tell us how special they feel to have such a special relationship with Ernest. I never have the heart to tell them he has a special relationship with lots of people. Besides just because you have a special relationship with a lot of people, it doesn't make any one relationship less special right? He is just a people person and connects easily with others. Which we love to see!

Pictures coming soon!


Sunday, May 4, 2014

MIssouri in March

In March we were fortunate enough to find great deals on airfare to Missouri to be present for Millie's (our niece) baptism and birthday weekend. This was the first time Ernest had spent the weekend away from home (we have been so busy working on the house we haven't been able to go anywhere on the weekends) and of course we went all out and flew him to another state! I think he did really well. We already knew, but really realized that weekend how much Ernest loves people and especially likes to people watch. And he didn't know what to do with all the attention he got from his cousins. Marshall's Mom (Ellen) and his sister Liz came with us, and of course Amanda (our niece) who is going to school at Weber State came along for the ride. Although to be honest, you may not think they were even there when you see the pictures. I am still getting use to this camera thing. So the pictures really don't do a good job of highlighting our adventures traveling, but I guess I was just trying to get some good pictures of all the nieces and nephews!

We got in late Friday night. Saturday we spent the morning at the Davies home. I couldn't even tell you what we did all morning and early afternoon, but the times flies when we are with the Paxson side. We tend to hangout, talk, eat, and just enjoy each others company. I love it. That afternoon George treated us to Ryan's. One of the buffet restaurants out there. Ernest was taking a much needed nap so Marshall and I took turns eating with everyone else. Then we headed to the church for the baptism. I think Millie got to pick the whole program and it was wonderful! It was just the family and the bishop and it felt so cozy! Then we headed back for the night.

Sunday we went to church, ate good food, and spent some good quality time together. Once again, I can't really tell you what we did but it went by way too fast. Then Monday we got up and made our way home. Ernest was such a champ on the flights too! He slept for 3 of them and was awake for the very last one that was only an hour long. When we finally got home Monday night, he was exhausted and went right to sleep.

Well, here are the pictures we took! Enjoy!






























Friday, May 2, 2014

Easter 2014

Happy Easter! These first few pictures are just a couple days before Easter. We watched Shreyna and Braden's kids so she could get her visiting teaching done. Here are the kids playing together! One day Kayson and Ernest will be best friends...


 These are from Easter Sunday. Anita had the cousins on the Paxson side over for an Easter egg hunt.




 Right after that the Malnar side showed up for dinner. Nolan came down, which is a rare treat since he lives a little farther north and we all got to meet his latest interest, Kaycee (really I have no idea how to spell it). She was really nice and it's always fun to meet new people!





 This last picture of Ernest was actually taken after Easter, but I had to include it because he is wearing the outfit the Easter Bunny brought for him. Last year we didn't see the Easter Bunny in our home, but this year he brought each of us something...maybe you have to have kids to get put on the Easter Bunny's route? We really try to keep the focus of Easter on Christ, so no guarantee he'll get the invite next year, we will just have to wait and see.

Thursday, May 1, 2014

Christmas 2013

When we lived in our first tiny apartment we would talk about the day when we would have our own home and could host holidays with our extended family. Well, your wish is my command! We moved into our new house Dec. 1st! Although we had no kitchen... we were as happy as can be. Our kitchen was installed enough to move into it around Dec. 18th. I remember unpacking my kitchen boxes on Christmas Eve day. And then we hosted Christmas. Haha, it was a little crazy! But it was so much fun to have the space to have everyone here. Here are a few pictures from Christmas.

We played out the nativity scene Christmas Eve. I think here we have Joseph and Mary.

                         Oh Joseph...                                                 And don't forget the animals in the stable!      
 Just Abi and her crazy faces!

 I'm not sure Kayson into the Nativity play but he sure is a cutie!



 Our attempt at the family photo. I resisted putting the one in where I am trying to make Ernest smile from behind... you know the one where mom and dad have the cheesiest grins on their faces, and the baby doesn't...